Behold, children are a heritage from the LORD, the fruit of the womb is a reward. Psalm 127:3

November, 2009

Wednesday, November 18th, 2009

A New Day

“This is the day the LORD has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.”  Psalm 118:24

I am happy to report that most of the family seems to have fully recovered from our bout of flu!  I say most, because my 15 year-old son got hit the hardest and is still regaining his strength, but the rest seem fully back to normal.  While I didn’t succumb to the virus myself, I did have a full-blown case of exhaustion.  This morning I woke up feeling rested for the first time in many days, and I’m eager to get back into my daily routine.

It’s not a particularly sunny day – in fact it is a “mostly cloudy” day with a chance of rain in the forecast.  The autumn colors have faded, and many of the trees are barren of leaves.  However, it is amazing how much brighter everything looks when there is strength coursing through the veins and eyelids aren’t being propped open with toothpicks!  I may be dragging later in the day, but right now it feels good to just feel good.

While physical issues do have a bearing on how the day is viewed, my attitude is an even more important factor.  I may not have a choice in how I feel physically, but I do have a choice in how I respond to the way I feel or to the things that are going on around me.  It is much easier for me to rejoice in the day when things are going well than on those days when things aren’t going so well.  Yet EVERY day is a “day that the Lord has made”, and I need to do a better job of remembering that.  A conscious effort to “rejoice and be glad” will often turn a “bad” day into a “good” day.  My attitude really does make a difference, and I’m afraid that it too often is a difference in the wrong direction.  A “poor me” attitude automatically darkens the colors and makes it harder to handle the small challenges that are a normal part of a mother’s day. Why is it that it is so hard to remember that I have a choice in how I approach the day, and that things will go much more smoothly if I choose to approach the day with joy?

Monday, November 9th, 2009

Swine Flu?

“The LORD will strengthen him on his bed of illness; You will sustain him on his sickbed.”  Psalm 41:3

Our house has been more like a hospital than a home for the last week.  The day after my husband left for an overseas business trip, my oldest daughter started to feel sick.  One by one, each of the other children also came down with the bug.  We haven’t been to the doctor, but the symptoms very closely match swine flu.  (Doctors aren’t testing for it anymore, anyway – just diagnosing by symptoms.)  We’ve run the gamut from fairly mild cases to delirium and difficulty breathing.  On several occasions over the weekend, I thought I was going to have to take my asthmatic 13 year-old to the hospital, but calls to his pulmonolgist, a prescription for prednisone, and numerous breathing treatments allowed us to say home.  I am very thankful for hospitals, but they are also a good place to pick up new bugs!

There was one night when I had beds set up in the living room for all but my oldest 2 (who were feeling better), and I dosed when I could – sitting up in my computer chair!   Thankfully, I have either not gotten the bug or it has been very mild.  The times when I have felt sick could easily be attributed to exhaustion, since I’ve been surviving on strong, hot coffee.  And I’m even more thankful that the baby (who just turned 3 months) has not been very sick.  She’s had some minor congestion and coughing, but so far no fever.

We’re not over this yet, as I still have boys who are doing more sleeping and coughing than anything else, and one is suffering from an ear infection.  This bug comes in stages and has definite ups and downs.  Even those who are feeling better are still weak and exhausted.  To top it off, I found out that if it is H1N1,  the contagious period is up to 10 days from the first symptoms.  We have had to cancel a visit from DH’s 85 year-old mother this coming weekend.  She hasn’t seen the children for 4 years, and hasn’t even met the youngest 2, but we certainly don’t want to expose her to the bug.  And now we need to decide whether or not DH comes home tomorrow when he returns to the states.  Thanks to the economy, he no longer gets sick pay, so he has no time to be sick!  ;-)

Through all the concerns in caring for my children, it has been a comfort to know that the Lord has been watching over us and caring for us.  During those times when I was having to make difficult decisions on the best way to care for them, I was very aware of the Lord directing me and helping me to think clearly.  It was He who gave me the strength to keep going when I felt like I was going to drop, and He who has been bringing each one safely through this sickness, swine flu or not!

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